Chemistry里面有一段：

The Chinese so often seen as utilitarian. But truthfully isn’t this what most people would do? Who would win a million dollars and just read? Also Eric has no time for drums. He stops playing them when he stops reading books. Where is the time? But more important, where is the space? The soundproofed walls? Where is the band? He tries to join a band at the beginning of grad school but then has to leave, because where is the time?

我真的双手双脚同意，grad school，人生走向凄惨的开始。